Sometimes we need to realize how important we are - not to others, but to ourselves. Because people are bound to disappoint, to hurt, and to take you for granted. And perhaps they don't mean to, they just make decisions to love themselves more than they love you. But we don't necessarily have to feel like we're on the losing end. In fact, we never are. We only need to know how to love ourselves in the same manner, to choose to be in control than to be controlled. And when we do, we'll eventually keep out all that doesn't serve us, and make happiness our only choice. (: